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  • ㅤname: nyx

  • age: thirty-three

  • i am: autistic 🌸 black 🌸 polypan 🌸

  • ㅤpronouns: she/her/miss

  • ㅤtimezoneㅤㅤ: PNW

ㅤA B O U Tㅤㅤ
Sweet & gothic lolita since 2003
Gyaru since 2010

c u r r e n t l y
ㅤreading:ㅤㅤ Nothing atm, but my backlog is really bloated
ㅤwatching:ㅤ dr. cha, working moms, yamadakun to lvl999 no koi wo suru, ancient magus’ bride season 2, dead mount death play, oshi no ko
ㅤplaying:ㅤㅤ genshin impact, cereza & the lost demon, wyldwood, pokemon s/v, pla, 13 sentinels
ㅤlistening:ㅤ sawbones
ㅤhobbies:ㅤㅤ vintage toys, vintage handhelds & electronics, video games, mixed media art, hobonichi journaling/planners
c o n t a c t
ㅤdiscord:ㅤㅤ arcadegh0st#0330
ㅤgamertag: arcadeghost/pinkarcadegh0st
ㅤemail:ㅤㅤ [email protected]
switch fc:ㅤㅤ sw-4376-9965-8582 / sw-1273-9977-5399
ㅤline:ㅤㅤ happiimilk
ㅤReddit:ㅤㅤ u/-bitchpudding-

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ㅤDISLIKESㅤ

general style: Sweet lolita fashion, bittersweet, classic and gothic. (I don’t believe in self-limiting)
food: hotpot, ramen/ramyun, spicy food in general, macarons, jaffa cakes, crab boils, bbq (domestic & international)
book genres: horror, thriller, drama, period pieces, racy trash,
music: bubblegum goth, edm, trance, nu-metal, melodic metal, pop (international and domestic) — full disclosure, i will absolutely listen to anything that isn’t bluegrass/country. All music is real music, but I can’t jive with sexy tractors or whatever.
general: shallow interactions/small talk; dishonesty and poor communication; hot weather that induces sweating, spiders, people who say they don’t like cats; people who still try to gatekeep in the gaming and pc communities like it’s 1997. Get a life.
foods: cauliflower, anything with a volatile smell, poorly or under seasoned foods; things with a grainy/granular texture when it appears smooth (such as grits)
media: Nu-Disney for the most part, they lost me after like 2016 tbh; books & movies that use violence against women/minorities as a plot device for character building to make up for the author’s personal lack of substance as a creative human
fave egl brands
angelic pretty, baby the stars shine bright, metamorphose, innocent world, haenuli, lief, mary magdalene
fave aesthetics
soft girl, kuromi/my melo, y2k, dark academia, trad goth & nu goth, cottage, witchy, all of the catholic aesthetic with none of the crimes against humanity
fave interests
lore & cryptozoology, egl, bees, virology & epidemiology, miniature/doll house items, theoretic astrophysics for dummies, nail art, sanrio, handheld consoles, vintage electronics, halloween
fave games
castlevania: lords of shadow, pokemon, cozy grove, animal crossing, cereza & the lost demon, kirby series, final fantasy 3, final fantasy 7, chrono cross, monster ranch 2, digimon world 2, legend of mana, dragonseed
fave music / band / idols
melanie martinez, thousand foot krutch, asking alexandria, ghost, nothing more, shinedown, a perfect circle, linkin park, breaking benjamin, korn, girugamesh, malice mizer, red sun rising, billie eillish, survive said the prophet, badflower, halestorm, spiritbox, marina & the diamonds, halsey

𝗡𝗼𝘄 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴:
(Song-Music Artist)
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  • ㅤband nameㅤㅤ Halsey

  • ㅤband nameㅤㅤ melanie martinez

  • ㅤband nameㅤㅤ mr kitty

  • ㅤband nameㅤㅤ loveless

  • ㅤband nameㅤㅤ cults

  • ㅤband nameㅤㅤ buck-tick

  • ㅤband nameㅤㅤ syKo

  • ㅤband nameㅤㅤ spiritbox

  • ㅤtrack 1ㅤㅤ control

  • ㅤtrack 2ㅤㅤ pity party

  • ㅤtrack 3ㅤㅤ after dark

  • ㅤtrack 4ㅤㅤ middle of the night

  • ㅤtrack 5ㅤㅤ gilded lily (sped up)

  • ㅤtrack 6ㅤㅤ gessekai

  • ㅤtrack 7ㅤㅤ #brooklynbloodpop

  • ㅤtrack 8ㅤㅤ constance

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ㅤM Y L O L I T A C L O S E Tㅤ
I started wearing Lolita fashion in about 2003, my very first dress was a pink x white maid dress from the now dissolved brand: In The Starlight. I purchased a Fan+Friend dress in 2010, which looking back was a AATP replica, lol. Around 2011, I met my most dear friend rorouniinugirl from LJ and she really showed me the ins & outs of lolita, the community and Japanese brands. I made my first brand purchase that year, Creamy Soda Pop OP in mint.Since then, I have explored the substyles I love the most and eventually was able to expand my closet to what I had always dreamed of as a newbie once upon a time.i will try to keep this as up to date as possible.

m a i n p i e c e s

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ㅤM Y L O L I T A C L O S E Tㅤ
I started wearing Lolita fashion in about 2003, my very first dress was a pink x white maid dress from the now dissolved brand: In The Starlight. I purchased a Fan+Friend dress in 2010, which looking back was a AATP replica, lol. Around 2011, I met my most dear friend rorouniinugirl from LJ and she really showed me the ins & outs of lolita, the community and Japanese brands. I made my first brand purchase that year, Creamy Soda Pop OP in mint.Since then, I have explored the substyles I love the most and eventually was able to expand my closet to what I had always dreamed of as a newbie once upon a time.i will try to keep this as up to date as possible.

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